• Medical Play

• Sounding

• Race Play

• Pegging

• Penetration

• Wrestling

• Roman showers 

• AB/DL 

• I do not offer GFE or FS 

• I do not offer anything penetrative

Q: How do I know I’ll be safe?
A: Your safety is always at the forefront of everything I do. We’ll start by discussing your boundaries, limits, and any concerns during a pre-session consultation. Throughout the session, I use clear communication and a safe word system to ensure your comfort. You can trust that I will be attentive to your needs, so you feel secure and in control at all times. Consent is of upmost importance hence the RACK agreement.

Q: What happens in a session?
A: Every session is unique and catered specifically to your desires. We’ll begin with a consultation to ensure I fully understand your preferences and limits. Based on this, I will design a tailored experience that challenges and excites you within the boundaries we’ve established. During the session, I’ll guide you through a series of activities that are aligned with both your interests and my expertise.

Q: How do I book a session?
A: Booking a session with me is easy and discreet. Simply fill out my contact form with some basic details, and I will follow up with you to discuss your needs and availability. Once we’ve confirmed everything, I’ll guide you through the next steps, including logistics and finalizing any details. From there, all you need to do is prepare for an experience unlike any other.

Q: Can I request something specific?
A: Yes, I welcome personalized requests that fit within my boundaries and areas of expertise. If you have a particular fantasy or specific activities you’d like to explore, we’ll discuss them during our consultation. I’m open to tailoring the session to your preferences, ensuring that the experience is deeply satisfying and uniquely yours. Just keep in mind that all requests must align with my professional limits.

Q: What am I allowed to say or do during a session?
A: While you’re encouraged to express your needs and desires, your actions must align with the boundaries we’ve set. Following my instructions is key to creating an enjoyable and respectful experience. Clear communication and respectful behavior will enhance the dynamic and ensure that both of us feel comfortable throughout the session. If at any point you’re unsure, just ask—I’m here to guide you.

Q: How should I prepare for our session?
A: To ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience, please follow any specific instructions I provide before the session. Arrive clean, punctual, and with a clear, open mind ready to embrace the moment. Pay attention to any guidelines I’ve given regarding attire or preparation. Being mentally and physically prepared will ensure we can dive into the experience right away.

Know What You Want
Before reaching out to a Mistress, take time to reflect on your desires. It’s okay to be new and unsure, but having a basic understanding of your interests is essential. Sessions vary widely, and knowing what excites you ensures compatibility and maximizes enjoyment. Common interests include submission, pain, humiliation, fetishes, or control. Research terms through reputable BDSM glossaries to clarify your preferences. A Mistress’s website often lists session offerings—review this carefully to ensure alignment.

If you’re unsure about your interests, some Mistresses provide resources or consultations to help explore and articulate your desires. Clear communication about specific fantasies, such as consensual non-consent (CNC), is crucial, as these scenes require detailed pre-session discussions for safety and consent.

Be Prepared
First-time clients often hesitate or cancel. To reduce no-shows, many Mistresses require deposits. Ensure you’re genuinely ready to proceed before booking, as deposits are typically non-refundable if you cancel.

Understand Legal Boundaries
Some BDSM activities, such as certain forms of roleplay or bodily fluid exchange, may be illegal in your area. Be mindful of these restrictions when discussing session interests. Research legalities and focus on activities that align with the Mistress’s advertised practices.

Sex is Not Included
Traditional pro-dommes do not engage in sexual acts or offer sexual contact during sessions. If sex or explicit release is your primary interest, seek escorts or providers specializing in this. Respect the professional boundaries of a Mistress and refrain from pushing for services not offered.

Do Your Homework
Read a Mistress’s website and ads thoroughly. Respect her listed hours, hard limits, and communication preferences. When contacting her, introduce yourself respectfully, specify your interests, and propose session times. Avoid vague messages or repetitive questions.

Respect Boundaries and Professionalism
Mistresses deal with time-wasters and inappropriate inquiries daily. Demonstrate respect by being concise, polite, and informed. Do not argue about her limits, ask for discounts, or attempt to bargain. Remember, professional dominants value consent, boundaries, and professionalism.

Be Ready for the Session
Arrive on time, clean, and groomed. Respect her personal space and boundaries during the session. Follow her instructions on addressing her, and refrain from asking intrusive personal questions.

Express Gratitude
Show appreciation by providing thoughtful feedback after the session. Tips are a meaningful way to express satisfaction and respect for her skills, with $50 being a common range.

Summary
Exploring BDSM with a professional Mistress can be a deeply fulfilling experience. By understanding your desires, respecting boundaries, and communicating effectively, you can create a mutually enjoyable and respectful dynamic.

If you are fortunate enough to have an audience with a professional dominatrix, it is essential to approach the experience with respect, preparation, and adherence to proper etiquette. While these tips are specific to professional dominatrices, they can also be helpful when interacting with any dominant individual.

Preparation is crucial. Always arrive well-prepared and in the right mindset. Complete any assignments she gives you with precision and care. Avoid arriving hungry, tired, frazzled, or in a bad mood. Take the time to eat, rest, and compose yourself beforehand. Plan for some downtime after the session, as it might run late, or you may need extra time to wind down. Hygiene is of utmost importance, so shower and shampoo your hair before the session, or at least on the same day. Wash thoroughly after restroom visits, especially in intimate areas, and carry wet wipes if necessary. Use an antiperspirant, brush and floss your teeth, and freshen your breath with mints. Avoid strong-smelling foods like garlic or onions before the session. Ensure that your clothes, particularly underwear and socks, are clean, and refrain from wearing cologne or aftershave.

Thoughtfulness goes a long way. Bring a résumé detailing your interests, experience level, and limits, but avoid overwhelming her with a detailed script of your fantasy. Instead, trust her expertise to craft the session. A small gift, such as flowers, a card, wine, candles, or a BDSM toy, demonstrates respect and appreciation. Be prepared with the exact payment for the session and extra cash for tips or extensions. Many professional dominatrices accept credit cards, but it’s best to confirm payment methods ahead of time.

Punctuality and politeness are key to making a good impression. Arrive on time, as being early can be as disruptive as being late. Approach the session with respect and obedience from the outset. If a receptionist greets you or the dominatrix is in street clothes, don’t let it unsettle you—the session hasn’t started yet. Always prioritize discretion; avoid calling her “Mistress” in public or doing anything that might attract unwanted attention. Understand that experienced clients are patient and expect a brief wait if necessary.

At the start of the session, handle payments immediately without prompting. Avoid requesting illegal activities, as doing so puts her in a difficult and unsafe position. Trust her to guide the session and address your hopes only when she asks for input. Remember that privileges like body worship must be earned. Be honest about your experience and limits, as overstating them won’t impress her and could lead to uncomfortable situations. Never say something vague like “you can do anything to me,” as this may lead her to test her most extreme limits, assuming you can handle it.

Do not expect nudity or sexual acts unless explicitly advertised, which is rare among professional dominatrices in the U.S. There will be no sexual contact or acts of any kind—do not ask for them.

During the session, follow instructions immediately and without hesitation. While making noises can be entertaining, avoid screaming or crying out loudly unless explicitly allowed. Speak up if something feels unsafe or unenjoyable, as experienced dominatrices value honest communication. Do not touch her without permission, even casually, and avoid personal or inappropriate remarks. Remember your role as a submissive and maintain realistic expectations—sessions may not align perfectly with your fantasies, but trust her skill to create a unique and fulfilling experience.

Being the ideal submissive means relinquishing control and trusting her expertise. Keep your eyes downcast, ask for permission before speaking, and address her by her preferred title, such as “Mistress” or “Goddess.” Enthusiastically follow her cues and demonstrate your submission by actions like kneeling, crawling, or worshiping her boots if instructed. Stay mindful of your limits, monitor your physical well-being during play, and communicate any discomfort or concerns. Skilled dominatrices value aftercare, so allow her to guide you back to a balanced state before leaving.

Finally, ensure you leave a positive impression to be invited back. Refrain from passing judgment on the session immediately; BDSM often involves feelings that evolve over time. Assist her in cleaning up, if appropriate, and express gratitude before leaving. Booking your next session right away is a smart move, as talented dominatrices are often in high demand. If you feel inclined, tipping is a thoughtful gesture, particularly for independent professionals or headmistresses. After the session, consider sending a brief email to express your appreciation and hopes for future opportunities to serve her.

These guidelines are suggestions and may vary depending on individual preferences, but any professional dominatrix will appreciate a submissive who demonstrates respect, preparation, and willingness to follow proper protocols.